You will not believe this, Misty Rae, but I have that, right? People DO ask to touch my hair, especially men. Although I can't understand ANY of it, people apparently have little to no ability to keep their hands to themselves. As to the rest? What a bunch of goons!! Who says that stuff? Them, obviously! ... some of the comments about your kids remind me of what this rich lady said to my great grandmother, who had 13 children, but only 3 lived - all 3 girls who were 5 years apart, and who each looked very different to the other (one blonde/blue eyed, one red hair/dark red-brown eyes, one dark brown hair/green eyes). The woman stopped them walking on the street and said to my great grandma, "My, how did you come to have three such beautiful daughters?" It's a form of hoof in mouth disease that afflicts people with zero social skills or tact - yes, usually directed at mixed race or Black people but when they are not around, these folks will spread the joy to other white ppl. Blessings + white light for a wonderful year to come for you and your family/friends.