Well here is a "whole lotta love" Yael ... how familiar all of this sounds, though you seem to be very tall and I am not. Loving those comments to a 12-YO - that was so common and so corrosive. Blessings and white light for your healing journey. I saw you were shopping at Kohls. Ah man, try some different stores - I hope you will find what is comfortable, appealing, and makes you the happiest!!