Tony, I'm gonna write about this from my perspective. For example, I could be dying and certain men in my life would be telling me about their aching back or sore feet. Like that. If somebody tells you they've lost a family member to police violence and you go, "yeah? Well my neighbor when I was going to school was a cop, All Lives Matter" it's just another way to say "f off, you are so far below me I don't even care if your little kid was skinned alive on the first day of Kindergarten."