Toni, I wish I could write as great as you have about this altercation - I saw something like that (100% white) before we moved to FL, but it wasn't over a candle, it was over ... Trump. I was like "Don't do it girl, do NOT do it ..." this woman just had no clue. Fortunately a friend stepped in and calmed the one lady down bc the other one wasn't going to get into it with her, she had used the white phrase, "I have a gun in my bag."