Rebecca, I’m thinking about writing about the extremely poor social skills and sociopath behavior of many white people. All you say is true and I’m sorry you were exposed to this horrible type of person. For all the misery they cause others, they are also either miserable themselves or such stunted, messed up people their “pleasures” are only cruelty , greed, and egocentism. A decent person and good friend supports their friends. The last thing any would do is any of the things you describe, especially throwing themselves at someone else’s boyfriend. None of these ppl is worth a thing. They should consider themselves lucky they have a society to live in created and kept running by decent, normal people.