LOL! You're absolutely right, Mona. I totally understand all you are saying, and it's true - and it's not just Eastern Europe but all over the world where women grow up in very negative circumstances and are eager to improve their lives by traveling to a place like the US. Sadly - the US isn't like what they think - the same situation occurs with people who work in different industries, from nurses to computer experts. I'd die for my husband and I would do ANYTHING for him - he's the love of my life. I'm sure some of these long-distance relationships do work out well. And - I wish well on all the women who are just trying to improve their lives.