It sounds like you felt the same reading FDS comments as I did when reading the forums for guys who don't get how to get along properly with others, Michael. When I realized they purposely think these things up, like mean comments to make women feel bad - I was shocked. Your comments and perspective are appreciated. I used this as an example because they had sent out a news article about this question that was asked a few years ago and I looked and amazingly, not one of these guys who answered the question actually answered it beyond the minimum ("I protect the woman from assault" and "I buy dinner and movies."). My husband could write a treatise on all he does and I just try to keep up with him and remain equal to his support. We've been together 8 years and married for 5. Happy couples ... a great thing.