In this case? I'm wondering if it might have been a different type of personal other than skin color. This is where I am from. This type of restaurant (and the specific restaurant and chain) serve customers from all over the world. It is very unusual for this type of apparently race based offensive harassment to have occurred in this location, at this type of chain restaurant in So Cal. La Jolla is an upscale enclave where it's difficult to get a table and be served. But this restaurant is a major chain steakhouse accustomed to serving tourists. I would hope the server was terminated - and if this was on the news there in any extent so people heard? It would force closure of that restaurant. Southern California is multiethnic and multicultural and the large group of customers would definitely avoid a location where this type of thing happened.