I would say that a violent person of any gender or sexual orientation with a substance misuse problem needs help. For yourself and your son? There's mentally disturbed people commenting on this article. You are a real person in a dilemma and I am no longer a professional in anything related to this field, but for pay, I do write books about substance misuse, and mental health problems. This article wasn't meant seriously about any type of hormone issue, it was aimed at embarrassing and showing this type of person to the world for what they are. After 16 years, you have your son and yourself and (grandson and granddaughter)? to consider. I'm not going to give advice, but based on people I've worked with in the past, students, and members of my own family, I'd say - this is a bad situation, she has a 13 year old, she hit a 15 year old with a pet and already maybe hurt or killed the pet. This is physical danger, the lady is out of control and cannot (obviously) control herself. I know cops do not want to deal with these situations and many families have precious little help of any type. Maybe there is some one person or all of you together can do an intervention and get her into treatment. Point of my article is, I (and any other relatively decent human, man or woman) can understand and empathize with your situation and wish there was much more help for all of you, including the lady who is suffering and hurting others. These incels? You can see their "empathy," common sense, intelligence and quality right here. You are speaking of real violence, real trauma and real distress. They think that if I purposely say they are "Low T" to insult them, it is like I did what you just said your daughter in law has done all this time. Of course in the real world these problems are in no way exclusively one gender.