I would never do that: I'm always there for my husband and will always be there for him. I will always be there for my daughter and the rest of my family and friends. I was always there for Alan, my former fiance, and he left our son by himself to die. It's about a little bit more than words bothering you or people taking on 110% of all of the burdens forever and finally speaking out that they have had enough. My life hasn't been easy. I don't know any man who could survive what I have and be healthy and happy. As another person commented, "Why don't you write an article asking men to be there for each other more?" If you don't like the way other men act with you or each other, surprisingly: they're not any better with female partners if they're this type of man, apparently the majority or at least the loudest ones. They are worse.