I never wrote about "all white people" or "all white men," I wrote about a certain group that seems to feel they are being abused or discriminated against when they see or hear information about others. I NEVER did that, it does not appear in one sentence. It always spoke about a certain group who are highly propagandized and who believe that when they hear information about others (that does not concern them - the man who has been ostracized and caused trouble for his wife because he strongly believes the propaganda even though the largely conservative, right-wing 2nd Amendment supporting larger group has gotten tired of his rants about Black people) - the point being - it's self-centeredness. I wrote about self-centered men who cannot conceive of anyone else having a different opinion and who consider other people stating they have a concern or problem, to be some type of imposition upon them - even to the point of "discrimination." There are numerous comments here from white men who feel differently.
So here's another one. When a Black person says, "Black Lives Matter" (propaganda calls this group a "terrorist" group and I have heard this from a number of friends) and someone else says, "All Lives Matter" that means -
"I really could not care less about your concern, my concern is ME and MY LIFE." That's the message that is conveyed.
So here we have another common phrase, "I don't see color."
That says to someone who is Black or another skin color than the other person who says it (I have never heard a non-white person say this - maybe some do), "I do not SEE YOU."
These are simple, basic concepts involving basic respect and empathy for others. Empathy is even called bad in some of these hardcore publications and venues. They say it is BAD for being concerned with what others are thinking and feeling.
One thing I did say, at the end, was that I think that men like my friend's husband are BAD. I wouldn't trust this man with anything important. He is not trustworthy because he is obsessed with propaganda, not reality. He concerns himself more with strangers - than with his own spouse or people he knows in his own neighborhood.
BAD.