I can't tell you how much I respect you Julie. You were so strong through all of this and he is ...

I'm sorry. You will always have these children from your marriage. His behavior was and is inexcusable. It sounds as though he got some retribution for leaving a faithful partner for someone who is using his credit card - and as you said, to him, "money was everything." Blessings and white light for your life and your family.