Hi Paul, I agree with you. This is why I said I wish for all couples to share our relationship qualities. It doesn't matter whether the partner is of the same sex or opposing sex. I have a sexual attraction to my husband. Yet if he were a woman and I were attracted to her, I would also feel the same. Our society's gender roles seem to push many men toward bad, limiting habits and behavior, and they seem to push women to accept or tolerate the bad behavior, which helps neither. I agree with you about the good qualities ANY partner should have in ANY love relationship.