Hi my friend, put on your thinking cap about this story you told, "She was his younger sister’s friend and she showed up naked in his bed at a sleep over. He couldn’t resist." Then you went on to describe drug addiction and so-on. So, if a naked 14 yo male shows up in *my* bed, I go, "HELLO??? Please go" - or even call for help. "He couldn't resist." What gave this young woman/teen this idea ... put your thinking cap on. What would have inspired that? Someone else sexualized her and did this to her. Your friend was not the first person to put his peen in her and time #1 - it was rape or molestation, likely a family member. And look where this took her health wise and life wise. Think about it. And as far as your concern about stats? If I sit and talk with other women eventually every single one of us. The entire group. That's the "stat."