Hi Claire, I hope you are well and had as good holidays as possible. I still get pinged occasionally by 2 guys - one I did meet via online dating (regular) whom I quickly realized was married, the other is a famously married writer. I saw both their names in the Ashley Madison leak a few years ago and notified both, but neither’s spouse seemed to notice and obviously these two didn’t speak up themselves. I wrote this for humor - the stories are true … Ashley Madison’s difference is I guess all on the service are married not just the men. https://asterling.medium.com/women-say-i-look-like-brad-pitt-online-dating-over-50-ce16d14d5fe8