Hello Kazmierz, I wish you all the healing and peace that recovery can offer to you as well as the opportunity for a caring and loving relationship if you are not already in one. My friend and I were discussing our experiences. You're commenting to MY COMMENT TO HER. I didn't write an original article about the topic. However, the original premise, to which I responded, was that straight men often tell women that they will protect them from abuse, and that's generally not the case. Again, I wish you peace, healing, and positive relationships with those who care about you, and that you also care for. That is a good life, and that is the one we all desire.