Hello Gary, I am not a member of the Female Dating Strategy community. You need to set up an anonymous account to do that, because the harassment against them is so extreme.

At the same time, I think you are mistaken in what you say. At least half of the information I have read in the FDS forums pertains to women's personal safety. Women are advising each other as how to best avoid being beaten, raped, or financially and personally taken advantages of.

As to "being treated like a Queen," I have that. And, I've had it in other relationships in the past. My best friend told me years ago, "Amy - someday you will find someone who will treat you like a Queen ..." and I thought, "I can't imagine."

Now I have that.

When Cathy told me that, we were dumping out the contents of dozens of hidden bottles of alcohol that my former fiance had hidden around the massive house I'd worked my a$$ off to pay for so he could impress his children that were part of his insane custody battle. That was all he cared about. Not me. Certainly not my daughter (she is also now in a relationship with a great young guy who cares) and not our baby.

You can read this if you like. It's where I'm coming from. It's also one of the top-read stories on this "service."

Oh - and after Alan had all those strokes? One person visited him 3-4 days a week when he was in the hospital. That would have been me.

https://medium.com/@asterling/my-baby-died-in-my-arms-and-i-was-accused-of-killing-him-450f40a032ab