Hello Avery - no, this isn't man bashing, but are you embarrassed by the unattractive and silly photo? There's nothing more "bashing" about this than there is about a man saying he wants a female partner to look a certain way, act a certain way, and fulfill his needs. That is what I am saying. I want a man who is physically fit, mentally alert, who works hard, and who has abilities and talents similar to mine. I have that. Unfortunately, a significant number of men don't even think they should put in any effort into themselves or a relationship. If you do not like the type of female partners available to you, then work to improve yourself and you will find others who meet your own standards for your self and others.