Allen, at this point I do not “blame” Monica for being the co-producer of the show because she has to earn a living in some way and she was barred from any type of work for decades along with the extreme public attacks against her. I know Tara Reade, who has publically stated that another well known public official sexually assaulted her (in no way anything consensual). Tara has been blackballed completely and lost all jobs and income because she did not stay silent. I’ve written extensively about what the “lessons” are. Women have to watch their backs because no man will and many other women are also looking to stab us in the back.